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A question I asked every morning driving to work." I don't feel like going to work today," I groaned in the car and eventually, even my wife got tired of listening to me. Long story short; It did not end well, and it became a seven-year learning curve and a transformational journey that renewed my mind and reshaped my paradigm.
It began from a grade four worker perspective for over two decades working for the largest local authority in Europe as a print buyer, advertising, marketing, sales, and income generation.
To have a job is a blessing to earn a living, but it can also be a curse for many. I went down the rabbit hole of those experiences and looking back; I am grateful that it taught me lessons; otherwise, I'm not sure how would I have learnt. It's equally important to understand that one must not kill (metaphorically speaking) themselves to understand life. I love the way Jack Ma – the Chinese multi-billionaire Tech Entrepreneur and founder of the Alibaba platform such as Amazon shares wisdom:
"ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS!
Whenever you feel crushed, under pressure, pressed, or in darkness, you're in a powerful place of transformation. TRUST THE PROCESS".
Anything can cause us to become stressed. Everything we do is interconnected and highlighted through our feelings and emotions.
Simple things can trigger stress, like being stuck in a traffic jam, missing the bus or train, misplacing the car or house keys, getting kids ready for school, and I am sure the list can go on.
When one area of your life suffers, it potentially spills into other areas of your life.
For example: If you become stressed because of your work, the stress feeling it related behaviours can spill into your family relationships and then lead to health issues, overeating, weight gain, addiction to substances and so on. You get the picture.
The number of people working in the UK has reached a record high of 32.54 million, the Office for National Statistics. So, with 32.54 million people employed in the UK. Why do people become stressed, anxious, depressed and that often leads to illness through work?
HSE {Health and Safety Executive} defines stress as "the adverse reaction people have to excessive pressure or other types of demands placed on them". The pressure is part and parcel of all work and helps us be motivated. But excessive force can lead to stress which undermines performance, is costly to employers and can make people ill.
It's essential to recognize that mental health issues are different from mental illness and how to treat them and understand good stress versus bad stress.
Remember! Everything is interconnected and has the potential to spill over into other areas of your life.
Infographic source: Compilation from researching various mental health articles documents, psychotherapist blogs and writings in June 2020. (Google search)
Especially when you are under constant stress, your health and well-being are affected. In the long term, stress can lead to more physical effects.
If you would like to talk more about your mental health challenges, I have the experience and the expertise to help you. I would highly recommend that you do speak to someone who can help.
Contact me: info@davidandrewcoaching.com
Read my blogs on mental health, midlife crisis and much more.